Tuesday, 19 February 2008

i felt bit lonesome going into new year



I felt a bit lonesome going into the New Year. It wasn't overbearing.

It didn't bog me down and leave me laying on a futon in a dark room

listening to Pulp. It was more like a fleck in my peripheral

vision--something that only became visible to me when i'd stop and

take a look around. Metaphorically speaking, of course.

It's reasonable to say that New Years holiday carries as much weight

for my family as Christmas does for yours. It was a big holiday in

Soviet Union and is still huge in the former Soviet Republics. Most

everyone i know who came from Soviet Union starts preparing for how

they'll spend New Years at least a month in advance. Reservations are

made at russian restaurants, trips are booked, outfits are carefully

decided, and of course, presents are bought. On 31st, most people will

take a nap during the day, so that they can party through the whole

night; it's reasonable to expect to stay out 'til 6am. New Years' eve

is spent with family when one's younger and with friends, when one's

older. On New Years day, families get together and presents are

exchanged and left over food is eaten. We usually put up a tree after

Christmas in my house. We started doing that because years ago my

father found out that live trees are given away for free on the 25th.

These days, my mom puts up a large, fake tree and all the presents get

piled under it. So you see, spending New Years alone was not something

I'd have wished on myself, but this year i wanted to spend it

Japanese/Okinawan style, and so i had to deal with the fact that

midnight was not going to be a big deal and i would have to be alone.

So here's a picture shorthand of how i spent my New Years with

Okinawans.

The New Years is a major holiday in Japan. It's a time for families to

gather and relax together. For this purpose, the special New Years

food, osechiryouri, is prepared in advance so that the females of the

family can also relax and join everyone in celebrating the holiday. On

the 31st families relax together by going on outings, playing games at

the house, watching TV, visiting relatives' homes, etc. New Years is

not a holiday that celebrates the one moment when the old year becomes

new; the holiday is celebrated over a period of several days during

which New Years food is eaten, people don't work, and children are

given envelopes of money as presents.

Follow the wiki links for more info on Japanese New Years' Eve, New

Years and osechi-ryouri.

On the 31st, the Taira family picked me up and we went to play park

golf in Kunigami. This is Mr. Taira who is the Ogimi BOE's

superintendant, his wife, their youngest daughter and their grandson.

Park golf is not quite mini-golf, because there are no funny

obstacles, but it's played with giant balls on a mini version of a

regular coarse. It was my first time and so naturally, i came in last.

There were quite a few families on the coarse; it was a clear day and

really lovely.

After park golf, we went to the Taira house and had a simple lunch of

miso soup and rolled mochi. The mochi was sent to Mrs. Taira from a

friend in the Sendai prefecture in the north of Japan. On New Years,

friends, and collegues send each other presents that are usually drink

or food. It is customary to send a present like that to your elder,

senpai, or a higherup at work. So mrs. Taira received quite a few

presents, so did grandmother Taira, but Mr. Taira didn't get as many

because he works in the public sector and so it could be construed as

bribary and is not done.

This is Kai, the son of the eldest Taira daughter. See if you can spot

a giant caterpillar near him.

After lunch, Nao, Mr. Taira, Kai and i drove to the aquarium in

Motobu. Even though i've been there 3 times already, it's still a nice

place to walk through, and i noticed that they change up some of the

smaller tanks. The aquarium was packed with mainland tourists,

foreigners (by that i mean US military), and Okinawans. It was a bit

cloudy and gray, and Kai fell asleep on the ride there and back. It

was the first time that we were given a break from his rendition of

Mr. Ozma's "Bounce with me" song. Unfortunately Kai could only

remember a small and very repetitive bit from the song, but he cracked

everyone up every time he'd do it, especially if he had space and

freedom to combine the song with dance.

This is the Taira family gathered around a dinner spread on the 31st.

We made our own sushi hand rolls, which so incredible delicious, i

can't even begin to describe my happiness with it. One of these days

i'll have to throw a sushi temaki party at my house. It'll be great.

After dinner we sat around and chatted and played games and watched

NHK's "Red vs white concert" which is a staple of any Japanese

household on New Year's Eve. Famous Japanese bands and singers perform

popular songs and it's a competition between men and women. At the end

of the evening, the audience gets to vote on who's won. I didn't

actually get to see won that evening, but more about that in just a

moment.

This is Saori, the eldest Taira daugher. I taught her how to play

backgammon online that night. We were playing a children's board game

called sugoroku which in the electronic dictionary translated to

"Japanese backgammon". It looked nothing like backgammon to me, just

your simple boardgame with obstacles. So i showed Saori the backgammon

i'm familiar with and it got her hooked.

At 11pm. Mrs. Taira prepared a New Year's soba dish. Eating of the

long soba noodles symbolically says goodbye to the old year while

welcoming the new. It's a tradition from mainland, as most that are

observed in Okinawa on New Year's are, but in Okinawa the buckweat

mainland soba is substituted for the Okinawa kind. Yum. After eating

the soba, we watched the concert for a few more minutes and around

11:45pm Mr. Taira politely indicated that it was time for me to return

home. Actually i wasn't their only guest that evening; the man in the

above picture oposite me is a good friend of Mr. Taira's who came over

around 9pm and brought sake with him. I was home with 10 minutes 'til

midnight, so i opened a bottle wine, poured myself a glass and decided

to take a picture of myself at midnight. By the time that all got set

up, it was midnight already and fireworks coming from Okuma resort

started off outside. I ran out and to the road and watched them with a

glass of wine in hand. Fireworks, wine, a great feeling of serenity

from having spent a day with lovely and goodhearted people put me in a

wonderful New Year's mood. Nothing to dread afterall.

On the 1st, at 11am i was back at the Taira house for osechi-ryouri.

If you followed the wiki link above, you already know that the food is

served in large stackable boxes and is not just an everyday Japanese

fare. Each dish in the osechi box has a deeper meaning that has to do

with the New Year. Red and white are majestic colors that can be found

in major Japanese celebrations, and of course in their flag, so

certain foods are arranged to show off those colors. Other foods carry

messages of fertility, prosperity, abundant harvest, and health. I

think that's one of the amazing factors about being in Japan is the

constant reminder of how traditional and deeply cultural the people's

lives are. It's a modern society with all the comforts that that can

afford, but it's still very firmly rooted in very concrete and all

enveloping cultural ideals and principles.

I haven't told you about Kai's greatgrandmother yet. Grandmother Taira

is an extraordinary woman. She has been named Japan's National

Treasure and for good reason. This woman singlehandedly brought back

the nearly lost art of Okinawa bashofu weaving. In the 60's and 70's,

she organized the women of Kijoka into a bashofu workshop and it is

now the only place in the world where bashofu cloth is woven. At

nearly 90 she is still an integral part of the tradition. She goes to

the workshop every day and has a room for weaving set up in the house

where she sometimes works with Mrs. Taira and Saori. She participates

in and supervises every arduous step of bashofu weaving, and her

indigo stained hands show it. A wonderful story from a little village

where i live. After eating, i went back to my apartment to call up my

family and friends on their New Years eve. Later in the afternoon, Mr.

Taira and the usual crew picked me up for a leisurely drive through

Kunigami. A nice and relaxing conclusion to my New Years with the

Tairas.

This is my supervisor's wife and their dog, Candy at a shrine in Naha

on the 2nd. We went to a shrine called Naminoue. It is one of the

biggest on Okinawa and a popular spot for those wishing to make their

first visit to a shrine in the New Year. At the shrine we threw in a

coin and clapped our hands to wake up the gods so that they could hear

our prayers. After that we walked past several stalls that sold

amulets for the new year in form of prayers sown into decorative

pouches, beautiful arrows to display in the house, representations of

various gods, etc. It is traditional to receive New Years fortune at a

shrine as well, so we each paid 100yen and picked one out of a box.

They have some with english translations as well. I read my fortune

and tied it to a rope as did every one else. My fortune for the year

is "very good," so let's hope that's right. There are several degrees

of fortune ranging from "excellent" to "poor".

After walking to a Buddhist temple next to the shrine we bought some

yakisoba at the food stalls and ate. This is a photo in the park next

to the shrine; a family enjoying a lunch after their shrine visit. I

just thought it was a perfect way to show you what Okinawa is like

during New Years. Gorgeous, peaceful, and all about the family.

Here's a giant stalagtite that hangs in a cave in Tomagusuku. After

the shrine visits, my supervisor drove us to a Ryuku culture park that

was initially built to show off a nearly kilometer long cave. It took

nearly a half hour to walk through the cave, which in parts was

decorated with christmas lights in a no longer surprising to me

Japanese fashion. There was even a giant, lit up Shisa near a

beautiful display of stalactites to provide a fun point for a picture.

On top of the cave, the park is an exhibition of traditional Okinawan

arts, crafts, dance, and food. There is also a small museum about

snakes, specifically the poisonous habu that live on Okinawa. We even

watched a show with live snakes. A ferret was also involved. No

worries, no animals were harmed during the show.

So here i am near a giant Chinese shisa in the cave park. Happy New

Year!! Sorry this post took so long in the making and turned out to be

exceptionally long but hopefully not too boring.

In the next post, i might get up the bravety to try and explain why

i've just signed my recontracting papers for a 3rd year on JET.

Although, after seeing the pics and reading the stories, some of the


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